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I am in Love with my Boss
Hello Joey,
I am in love with my supervisor but I am married and it is against my organization policies for an employee to date his/her supervisor. How do I control myself to not lose my marriage?
Tasha
Hello Tasha
You already answered your own question, “control”. You must get over your feelings, or at least suppress them. I know you think I don’t know how you feel, but I do. I think we all have fallen for someone at work. We often spend more time with the people at work than our spouses at home, and we form some attachment to our co-workers that we sometimes see as love. However, could you really imagine yourself with this man 24 hours a day, at home and at work? You did not mention if he likes you too or if there is or has been a secret relationship between the two of you. If there has been, stop it right now. Or this is your choice: Fess up to your husband that you are in love with another man; Quit your job and move in with your supervisor.
You obviously do not want to lose your marriage from what I read. Maybe you and your husband need a second honeymoon to put some spark back in your marriage. As far as your supervisor is concerned, start picturing him ten years from now, with a big beer belly, unshaven, and sitting on the couch in his dirty underwear drinking a beer farting and burping and bossing you around to make him some food. He will soon not look so handsome and desirable anymore. Go to your husband, look him in the eyes and tell him how much you love him. You obviously do or you would not be so bothered by your feelings.
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